He Proposed to Me

In May of 2013, Larnell travelled to VA so that we may meet each other in person.  I must say, I was quite nervous meeting him, but once I saw him he had such a calmness about him. A very laid back brother. All the worry and the nerves disappeared and I was able to relax. He met my family, but he really hit it off with my father, which was a shock to me.

When Larnell and I arrived at my father's house, I was hoping that my dad wouldn't say anything crazy to Larnell to scare him off, but knowing him he would! My dad asked him, "What are your intentions with my daughter? She's been hurt before, so if you plan to do that, then leave. She'll get over it." I looked at my dad like he was crazy. Larnell's response was right on point. He told my dad that he really loves me and have no intention on hurting me. He also told him that this courtship will let him know if it is worthy of a marriage. Then, my father said ok. He looked at me and said that he wanted to talk to Larnell alone and told me to go to the mall. Wow! When I left, I couldn't help but wonder what my dad said to him. After an hour, I returned and found them laughing and listening to old school music! I was in shock, but happy that he was getting along with my dad.

August 22, 2013, I arrived in Omaha, Nebraska to meet his family. We all went to Cheddar's for dinner. I had the opportunity to meet his mom, sister, her two children and his daughter. She was as cute as she could be. I started to think that since his family was here, maybe he would propose. Since we've been courting, there was discussion about marriage and children. He even asked me for my ring size. So, I just knew that he would propose. But as the evening went on, nothing happened. I stopped getting my hopes up and tried to let it go. Later on that night, he took me to downtown Omaha.  I noticed that he kept smiling at me as we were walking. Wondering why he was doing that, we walked up to this beautiful horse and carriage. I was so caught up in looking at the horse that I didn't even notice him talking to the owner.  He came back to me and told me we were going to ride on it.  My eyes lit up! It was very romantic. We rode around town and came up to this place were you can see a fountain shooting up water and changing colors. We got out and Larnell took my hand and we walked towards it. In the sky, I could see a full moon and a few stars. It was truly magical. He then began to recite the most beautiful poem I ever heard: 

I Call Her Queen

A lovely lady that command respect when she step up on the scene..her beauty flows from inside out like a steady stream..dressed in elegance & class with a polished appearance..the smell of her aroma standout like sweet incense, one look in her eyes and I'm completely convinced "her grass", "bright" green on her side of the fence(a caretaker) "Lord", let me help water her lawn,(lol) I know I ain't got good sense, but I been captivated by this vision ever since..a desire planted in my heart.."I Call Her Queen"..Love rock the finest linen, most importantly she God fearing and divinely driven..she so sincere, always givin'..finding her is like rare treasure that's hidden, my queen where are you? maybe you already near? or perhaps you're in a far off distance my dear..my longing is after you night & day, for you my love I continually pray..your king is preparing for you, that appointed time and day..I can imagine, I bet you like to have fun and play..and out of your mouth have the most pleasant words to say..gentleness embedded in your d.n.a...hand-carved in perfection..heavenly is the way of your direction..you radiate light in His reflection..I'm blown away, gone with the wind just from the thought of you being my helpmate, lover and friend..you were overlooked and passed up by many men, you tested em' through patience therefore, they didn't stick around to the end.."I Call Her Queen"..wisdom & honor engraved on her crown..a woman of excellence, firmly stable and sound, uniquely created with prestige, down to earth, she humbly bless the ground..the makeup of her essence is submissive, whispers of softness define her strength, pure goodness she models purity, my love establishes a brotha with security..a lady of virtue..may she reign, her love is royal..fit for a king...my future wife...I call her queen!

He turned to me and said that he loved me and didn't want to live another day without me. He asked me to marry him and of course I said Yes! What a well-thought out proposal! It was truly a night I'll never forget.